Years ago, back before every song played in my car was from an album called "Toddler Tunes" on a playlist labeled "Hensley", I used to listen to the radio. No iphone, no XM, just the regular ole local channels. Back where we used to live, we only had about 2 stations that came through (and that was on a good day).
Everything in that small town was relatively close together, so there wasn't much time to actually listen to the radio. I usually was never fully focused on what was on. This was true this particular day, but something quickly caught my attention, and here's what I heard:
"The giraffe gives birth standing up. So the first thing that happens to a new-born giraffe is a fall of about 10 feet.
Still dazed, the baby tries to stand up on its four legs, but it's mother behaves very strangely: she gives the baby giraffe a gentle kick which sends it sprawling. It tries to get up, stands, and is again knocked down to remind the baby how it got up the first time.
This process is repeated several times, until the new-born giraffe is too exhausted to stand. At that point, the mother kicks it again, forcing it to get to it's feet. After that, she does not push the baby giraffe over again.
The explanation is simple: in order to survive predators, the first lesson a giraffe must learn is to get to its feet quickly."
This really got me thinking.
'The explanation is simple.' Sounds insane, but it actually makes sense. To survive the predators, the ones that lurk, prowl, and would love to devour anything weak within its path, it must get to its feet quickly.
Have you ever felt like that baby giraffe? Each and every time you try to stand feet and you feel like you're finally okay, you're quickly knocked back down?
Bad news. Rough seasons. Heartbreak. Loss.
Feeling frustrated, strained, and confused, you gather the strength to stand back to your feet and not sit defeated.
Even though we would would be lying if we didn't admit, in the quietness of our hearts, that we think about quitting and just staying down this time. Thinking how hard it is to pick ourselves up, and get back on our feet. All the while wondering why this keeps happening.
Can I encourage you to keep at it?
1 Peter 5:8 (the Amplified version) says this :
Be well balanced (temperate, sober of mind), be vigilant and cautious at all times; for that enemy of yours, the devil, roams around like a lion roaring [in fierce hunger], seeking someone to seize upon and devour.
The Lord wants us to be able to get back to our feet quick, and He is conditioning us to do so. Continually. In every situation and season. Because if we don't get to our feet quickly (just like the baby giraffe that has to keep up with the pack) the ever present predator in our life would love to devour; to steal, to kill, and to destroy us (John 10:10).
If you feel knocked down, don't stay down. God wants more for you than that.
Be the baby giraffe. Get up quickly, and keep moving.
“I have told you these things so that in Me you may have peace. You will have suffering in this world. Be courageous! I have conquered the world.”
John 16:33 HCSB
Our 2018 wasn’t an easy one, but it’s a faith journey and a story filled with hope.
From the outside looking in, it looked easy. Cute pregnancy pictures, a funny toddler, a couple cute houses; the only way to see the muck in the mix is vulnerability.
If you know me know me,
You know I struggled.
If you don’t know me, you just saw my highlight reel.
You didn’t see the tears. The hurting heart. The longing. The mourning over the word “miscarriage” only to find out God is big and we, in fact, were still pregnant.
And it’s ok that you didn’t see it. What I want you all to see now, is what God has done.
Our word for 2018 was expectant. Not because we were expecting (that didn’t come until March) and not because I deserve anything but because He is faithful.
I could have chosen waiting, faithful, or patient
But instead I choose to be expectant of all that He can do, could do, and would do in 2018.
I want to look back over my year and yell out to you “come and see what God has done!’”
None of it was without hardships and some suffering on our ends, but it was oh so worth it. In the moment, I couldn’t see it. In the bad times, it’s hard to remember. (As cliche as that sounds, I really mean it.)
But now, come and see what God has done.
Along with this and many more little things sprinkled in.
Our 2018 wasn’t easy. Full transparency, it might have just been the hardest journey I’ve walked through thus far.
I could choose to look back over my shoulder and only see the muck, but I’m choosing to see The God stories that triumph over it all.
May your memories of 2018 be the good ones, and may your 2019 hold the best that is yet to come.
photo credit: Wayne Farley
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As a former teacher, Children’s minister, and now mom, I’m always looking for new fun things to do with Hensley that help her learn. That being said, I am excited to partner with Education.com to bring you this freebie! Hensley can’t quite read the words yet on this worksheet, but for now we can work on identifying objects. She’s not quite 2, but I am always surprised by what she knows and is able to learn.
Kids will be on point in reading skills with this fun word to picture match. The reading skills can continue at Education.com with more games and printables like this!
They have a variety of themes to choose from, including crawlies, a school themed template and seasonal themes (that will be perfect for Thanksgiving and Christmas breaks).
Whether you’re a teacher, a parent, or nannying some kiddos to pay the bills, if you’re looking for a fun way to entertain with something that isn’t just coloring or YouTube, Education.com has some great resources for you!
In a social media saturated society, combined with living in a warm beachy area AND it being the summer season, I have seen way more skin than I’ve ever cared to see.
I’m all for body positivity and being confident in who you are and how you were made. Focusing on who you are and not comparing. But hear me when I say this, it’s also very easy to see the difference between confidence, and attention seeking.
And we need to talk about it.
It’s an awkward conversation to have, no matter what age the friend is you’re trying to express this to. I’ve heard too many horrible things said when this topic gets brought up. Almost as if people are so unsure how to explain that it’s not exactly “right” they either tiptoe around to not offend, or aggressively slap people with the “your body is a temple” scripture.
So here’s how I’ll say it.
Your body is worth more than social media likes. YOU are worth more than social media likes.
What you catch people with, you have to keep them with. If you get attention just for your body, it’s uncommon that they’ll ever see your heart.
You are worth more than your social media presence.
You are called. You are worthy. You are loved. You are to be known by your true name, not your Instagram name.
I say this out of truth and love. From a place of experience. I’ve been on both sides.
It may not be the easiest thing to hear, but The Gospel was never meant to be the jelly on the toast, but rather the toaster itself. Seeing you how you are, transforming you to what you’re called to be.
Think before you post. Know that you have value and you are special. Know that you are worthy and you are beautiful. You are beautiful from the inside out, not the outside in.
I can speak for both of us when I say we don’t want our children to think living a life sold out to the Calling of The Messiah is easy, comfortable, or even sometimes understandable. When you are expectant that He is calling you to something more you obey. Obedience not often understood by a nonbeliever or one young in the faith journey. Sometimes obedience we don’t even understand, we just want to obey. We don’t proclaim to know everything but we do know that when you are obedient and give Him fertile soil to work, He can and will do more than you could ever fathom.
[He does great and unsearchable things, wonders without number - Job 9:10]
Success, to us, does not look like following our flesh but following the Father.
The flesh craves easy, comfort, family connections, materials
But the Spirit craves The Father, and obedience, and remembering it’s His approval not mans.
Years ago when I moved to Franklin I wrote a blog post about how I put God in a box, and He then put me in Franklin.
By "putting God in a box" I mean I forgot how big, powerful, and sovereign He really is.
I told Him what He had prepared me for instead of really having an open mind to what He was preparing me for. I told Him what doors He should open.
I had limited my prayers to what I had wanted. I limited what God could do to what I wanted. I put God in a box.
I wrote then: “He has things in store for me that are far greater than anything I could ever fathom.”
And Oh did He.
Franklin made me a wife and a mom. And given me so many amazing friendships and hearts to love like family. Friends that make me want to be a better wife, a better mom, and a better person.
I believe Winnie The Pooh said it best when he said, “I get to where I’m going, by walking away from where I’ve been.”
You can’t be in two places at once, or I would find a way. I’m a believer in half obedience being full disobedience, and I don’t want to be Jonah sloshing around in the belly of a whale.
That being said, here are all the details of our next adventure in obedience:
Where are we headed: Brunswick, Ga to serve at First Baptist Church Brunswick. Britton will be the Contemporary Worship & Young Adults Pastor
When do we move: June 25th
Where will we be living: Currently we have been offered a temporary rental that is within our budget in the town next to Brunswick.
How far along are we in this pregnancy: 11 weeks as of Saturday, June 2nd.
When is the baby due: December 22, 2018
What impact does this have for our foster care journey: due to some strange (God ordained, as we see now) circumstances, we did not get very far in the process here in NC. When we get more permanently settled in Georgia, we will pick up where we left off and work to become licensed Foster Parents in Brunswick. Expecting another baby does not deter us from the calling to foster.
Will we be closer to family: we are actually moving further away from family, which is never an easy choice to make. We do know people in the area and the Church has been extremely welcoming and loving to our family already.
How can you help: We are always in need of prayer. We are also in need of help packing and cleaning to get ready to move and sell our home.
How you can pray for us:
Pray that our home in Franklin sells quickly, and we will walk away with some profit to be able to put towards a home in Brunswick.
Pray that we do find more permanent housing, sooner rather than later.
Pray for a healthy full term pregnancy and safe delivery. Pray against high blood pressure that created issues for us during our pregnancy with Hensley Jae.
Pray for our family as we transition to a new area, new home, new church, and new environment.
Pray that we will find the best medical care and perfect doctors for Hensley and myself. We have absolutely loved and had amazing health care providers here and we would love to be able to fill those shoes with new providers in Brunswick.
Pray for the ministries Britton will be leading. We are praying for leaders and fertile soil.
Pray that we would remember these are The Lord’s ministries and His people, and that we would be faithful with what He has entrusted us with.
We also don't believe in goodbyes, so just tell us you'll see us soon.
We'll see you soon,